How to Find out What You are Truly Capable Of

Imagine having everything you’ve ever wanted within reach. In fact, everyone is already congratulating you on your achievement. You’ve done it. You’ve reached the rarified air of the truly elite. Now what?

Lesson from the last day of Ted Williams 400 season

If you’re Ted Williams in 1941, you put it all on the line. That’s why he is one of the greats. I’ll share his story in a moment.

Your big goal

What’s your biggest goal? The one overarching thing you want to achieve in life? The one thing that wakes you up in the morning and keeps you up at night?

Now, imagine hitting the goal. Imagine the feeling of success. Imagine the satisfaction that comes with achieving it.

Now, risk what you’ve already achieved and go find out what you are truly capable of.

Don’t make this mistake

In 2000, I hit every goal I’d set for that year. I won almost every golf tournament I entered for a three month stretch.

I played competitive golf in college and afterwards, I played professionally. For three months straight, I won almost every golf tournament I entered, many of them in landslides.

And then I made the mistake I encourage you not to make:

I got complacent. I stopped pushing. I stopped setting new goals. I gave up on my bigger dreams.

I never found out what I was truly capable of.

Protect your average?

That is not what Ted Williams did.

In 1941, Williams became the first hitter in more than a decade to hit .400 in a season. That means he got a hit 40% of the time for you non-baseball fans.

With only a Sunday doubleheader left to end the season, the Yankees had clinched the American League title and Williams’ average was .3996. Since averages are rounded off, his official average would be listed as .400.

After the Red Sox’ game on Saturday, the world congratulated Williams on his accomplishment. Since the title was no longer up for grabs, Sunday’s games were meaningless. They did not matter in the final standings. They meant nothing to almost everyone. Except Ted Williams.

“Wait a minute,” he said when they congratulated him. “The season’s not over. We’ve got a doubleheader tomorrow.”

The writers pushed back. “Oh, those games don’t matter, Ted. Just sit them out. Don’t you want to protect your average?”

Don’t you want to protect your average?

Isn’t that what most of us do?

Protect our average.

Protect the status quo.

Protect our achievements.

Protect what’s already ours.

Play it safe. Live the easy life. Sit back and relax. Rest on our laurels.

Not Ted Williams.

Not a chance, he said. “You guys don’t get it. Tomorrow is going to be the most exciting day of my life, a day I’ve been dreaming about since I was a little kid. Tomorrow is when I get to find out if I’m a .400 hitter.”

In other words, he said:

Tomorrow is when I find out if I truly am what you already say I am.

Tomorrow is when I put it all on the line.

Tomorrow is when I risk it all.

Tomorrow is when I find out what I am truly capable of.

Going for greatness

Ted Williams did indeed play two more games. He finished the day with six hits and finished the season with a .406 batting average. No one since has hit .400.

Whatever fears he had that day, he overcame them.

Whatever voices told him to protect his average, he silenced them.

Whatever critics told him he was crazy to risk something he’d already technically achieved, he ignored them.

Ted Williams did what I am telling you to do. He did what the greats do. He focused on his dreams. Not on his fears. Not on the voices. Not on his critics.

He focused on what he really wanted. He focused on proving something to himself, not others. He went for greatness and he achieved it.

And he found out what he was truly capable of.

He knew that his happiness would not come from being known as a .400 hitter. His happiness wouldn’t even come if he truly was a .400 hitter. Happiness doesn’t come from being seen as a success. Happiness doesn’t come from actual success.

Happiness comes from knowing that you gave it everything you had. That you didn’t ease up at the finish line or cautiously avoid failure. That you didn’t listen to the voices of fear, doubt, or critique.

My challenge to you: Take on your biggest challenge and do your best with it. Find out what you are truly capable of.

Question: What’s holding you back from finding out what you are truly capable of? You can leave a comment by clicking here.

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  • Loved this post Matt! I was just talking to my wife about this. Fear has held me back so many times although I would dress it up as be realistic. I have been trying somethings I never would have even attempted in the past and guess what!? I am hitting some of them.

      • Awesome… I actually wrote a post about it this morning;) thanks for souring me into a post! World changers are unrealistic! If they where realistic they wouldn’t change the world!

    • Zechariah, this is what I wrote in my post last week… “Fear holds you back. The moment you appreciate its power and choose to overwhelm it, you discover your authenticity.
      The magnanimous force being your real self will surprise you and also
      significantly influence your career, business and community.”

      Fear ruled me too. I stepped out of my day job this year to pursue my dream to help see people grow. I am slowly picking my targets off, one at a time…

  • Amazing post Matt. It seems to be a resounding theme to me, giving it my all. Last week, I wrote a post that was a reflection of the manifesto I am writing for release this weekend. It is “The Game-Changer’s Manifesto”. To change my game, I had to clearly define that change. That definition has its genesis in my values. Now, I also have a personal manifesto that defines the change I seek.

    • That’s awesome Kimunya. What did you clearly define it as?

      • The change is that I will be a game-changer! I will not rest on just exist, I will matter. I fully embrace my bold vision in its totality to uplift people to build better communities.

  • Stephanie Robbins

    Great post Matt! I find myself makign excuses for why I can’t dream big…I don’t have the time…I will when my kids are older. But now the time to see what I am truly capable within this amazing role of a mother. Thanks for reminding me

  • Several years ago, I ran my first marathon. For me, this was an opportunity to push beyond what I saw possible before. It was also a good lesson for other areas of my life. For example, I never imagined that I could write a book, yet I self-published my first book in April of this year. I think marathon training and running provided great lessons for me to overcome barriers in my life.

    • I would think that marathon training would do that for sure. Training for a half-marathon did that for me.