If you don’t indoctrinate your children, who will?
I was recently asked by an acquaintance if I was afraid I was indoctrinating our three-year old daughter, Aracelli. I responded with a question of my own, the one I ask above.
No, I am not afraid of indoctrinating our daughter. In fact, I am intentional about it.
The media is going to indoctrinate your kids into thinking that girls should act like sluts (Harsh word? Maybe, but I submit Miley Cyrus as proof). That’s how much of the world is going to tell our daughter how to act. And it’s going to indoctrinate boys into finding it attractive.
So by all means, indoctrinate them to think otherwise.
That is, unless you want a pregnant 16-year old with her third STD. In that case, go right ahead and let the television and her friends indoctrinate her.
Big food corporations are going to try to indoctrinate your kids (and you) into craving foods that kill you. Even worse, they will make you think they are healthy.
The reality is that these companies and the marketing agencies they hire are really good at what they do. They are clever at getting you to want to try something and then when you do, they make them highly addictive.
They will trick you. They will play on your emotions. They will lie to you. And you can bet that they will shine a spotlight on their good side (look, our marshmallowy sugar puffs are made with whole grain…hooray, healthier diabetes!).
In the end, they will indoctrinate you and your kids into becoming dependent on them for sustenance and happiness. Comfort foods, just add water, microwavable, dinner-in-a-box…it’s all so yummy and easy. And then they own you.
So by all means, indoctrinate them to think differently. To not fall prey to clever marketing and schemes. To eat real foods and stigmatize the garbage. To make their own healthy choices.
NOTE: The idea of stigmatizing bad foods comes from Tom Rath’s latest book, Eat. Move. Sleep. I highly recommend it.
Dave Ramsey would be proud
Advertisers and banks will try to indoctrinate your kids (and you again) into thinking you should have what you want, when you want it, regardless of your ability to pay for it. (I think our government must be listening to these advertisers)
Advertisers and banks don’t care about the stress that massive debt causes on families. They don’t care if it tears them apart or if it leads to suicide, as it often does. They don’t care that it leaves children fatherless or motherless. But they sure do care about how your friends are going to notice you in that new car. Oh, how they will envy you.
(If you think suicide isn’t common as a result of debt, watch the movie Maxed Out. In fact, if you haven’t seen it, watch it regardless. It’s powerful.)
From an early age, they will tell you that you can have anything you like. Just use this little card. It’s like magic. It makes all your dreams come true.
Others will tell your kids to be irresponsible with money, to live in bondage, and to spend their lives trying appear to keep up with the Joneses, even if it means they are forced to work until they are 80.
So by all means, indoctrinate your children as we have ours.
Recently, Tara and I bought something that didn’t work. Tara said that we would have to return it and get a credit.
Aracelli started crying and saying, “No! Credit is bad!” Dave Ramsey would have been proud.
The loudest voices
Yes, we have indoctrinated her into thinking a certain way about money, food, her body, and so much more. We are only two people against the tens of millions of other voices she will hear, but thankfully we are the two most influential voices she will hear.
Am I afraid that we will indoctrinate her? Absolutely not. Because it’s either going to be us or someone else.
You have to choose who will indoctrinate your kids. You or celebrity who just got out of his third stint in rehab. You or the company that gets rich off nation-riddling obesity. You…or everyone else.
By all means, indoctrinate your kids. If you don’t, who will?
In what ways have you found yourself indoctrinated by advertising, the media, or others? Positively or negatively.
How have you found life to be when you have followed your ‘thing’?