How Do You Deal with Insecurity in Your Online Business?

30 Days of Q&A - Day Six

I’ve been asked a lot about how to manage insecurity when starting and growing an online business. It can be so easy to look at others who are running massive businesses and think, “that will never be me.” Today, I’ll show you how to deal with this insecurity and focus on your own game.

If you struggle with comparing yourself to others, this video is for you.

How to be a Strong Finisher

It’s important to start, but success is always found in the finish.

You’ve heard the expression “a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” That is true, but there are approximately 2,154,999 more steps to go (seriously, I did the research…it’s more if you are shorter, less if you are taller). And those steps are just as meaningful.


How to Reach the Finish Line Strong

With that in mind, I asked Dan Erickson to share with us how to be a finisher.

Dan teaches public speaking, mass media, and feature writing courses at a college in the Pacific Northwest.  He blogs about writing and writing as a form of therapy at He writes songs, poetry and has written two books, A Train Called Forgiveness and At the Crossing of Justice and Mercy. He’s also an on-again/off-again runner like myself.

The Voices in Your Head

Your internal voices are usually lies.


Lies or truth? Overcoming the voices in your head

WARNING: Most of the following is an excerpt from my personal journal and might make you think I am crazy. I can live with that.

Jon Acuff writes in his book Start about his counselor, Al Andrews, who asked him:

What do your voices tell you?

Al states that:

No one has a positive voice.

Well that is a comforting thought.

Take the First Step

Start today. Start where you are. Start on what matters to you.

Those were my marching orders after reading Jon Acuff’s new book, Start. (You can read a full review of Start here)

Half-Marathon Running

I’m running a half-marathon later this year. My goal time is 2:08:00. For me, that is fast. About 1:00 per mile faster than I ran a 10k last fall. It’s going to be hard to accomplish that.

What if?

As soon as I committed to running, my thoughts drifted to:

“What if I finish last?”
“What if I don’t finish at all?”
“What if my training is disrupted by sickness, work, or…life?”

Then it occurred to me…what if all of those things happen?

Let’s say I get sick and miss two weeks of training. As a result, I begin race day having only run 11 miles on my best day. At the 11-mile mark, I have to stop and walk for a minute. Then I keep going…slowly. I finish last. I miss my goal by thirty minutes.